I used to think that conscious consumerism meant never buying anything. But I’ve learned it’s less about deprivation and more about intention—buying less and buying better. Pausing before a purchase. Asking, Do I need this?
So here’s a look at what I did say yes to last month—wardrobe staples, and a few pieces that sparked joy. I’m sharing it all, not to promote consumption, but to offer a glimpse into what conscious shopping looks like in real life: imperfect, evolving, and intentional.
:: Wardrobe: Summer Staples with Longevity
Linen Pants & Tube Top. Linen is a summer classic, and this pant felt like the elevated basic I’ve been missing. I tried on a ton of linen pants this spring because there are so many options, but this pair is truly the best. I wear these often and they don’t wrinkle. I paired it with a tube top which is a modern staple. I can throw a sweater over my shoulders or a cardigan or jacket over it.
Bucket Hat. I needed a new bucket hat this year because my other hats had gotten old and had lost their shape.
Vest. Vests are trendy this year but they are a classic silhouette so it’s a trend I don’t mind jumping on.
Wide Leg Denim. You’re probably thinking it’s summer, why would anyone buy jeans in the middle of summer? A light wash wide-leg denim pant is a great summertime option for cooler nights. I found the best pair — on sale — an I’ve gotten a ton of compliments on them already. Plus, I know I’ll wear them well into the fall.
Leather Sandals. Comfortable, minimalist, and neutral enough to pair with everything I own. I chose these because they will work with my shorts, skirts, and pants this summer.
USA Sweater. Thinking ahead to the fourth and a future trip to Nantucket, I wanted a fun, nostalgic nod to summer and fireworks. Not technically a necessity, but I know I will wear it for years to come.
Cowboy Trucker Hat. I never expected to fall in love with a cowboy trucker hat, but here we are. It’s playful and practical. I’ve already worn it to a country music concert.
Melinda Maria Tennis Necklace & Bracelet. These were tiny luxuries that feel like everyday armor. Dainty but strong. I tend to wear the same jewelry on repeat, so these filled a real gap.
:: Home Rituals
I’ve been slowly building a morning routine and this was my way of anchoring it. I make my bed every single day (at this point I can say it’s definitely in my morning routine).I’ve been journaling most mornings (progress, not perfection). instead of picking up my phone when I get out of bed. I’ve been interested in scented incense sticks for a while and I just picked up my first set from Hibi. I’m still in search of a scent that feels like me. Lastly, after a trip to Denver where I had the best matcha ever — I bought a matcha set of my own. I’ve been practicing perfecting my recipe and technique. It’s harder than it looks!
When I look at this list, I don’t feel regret—I feel clarity. Nearly everything I bought was filling a specific need, thoughtfully considered, or rooted in long-term use. That’s the heart of conscious consumption: not perfection, but presence. I’m still learning. I still have moments of impulse. But this exercise—of writing it all down and reflecting—helps me see patterns and hold myself accountable. I hope this gets you thinking more intentionally about your own purchases.
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